Date:   1/10/2007 9:54:26 PM ( 17 y ago)
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Hopsino,

I would be so bummed out if you left. I love your posts. You are very eloquent.

NOW, regarding Other People!! Let Me Tell You What I THINK!!

When I first got here, I was on the Debate Forums , really living it up. I would actually get totally irked at some of the attacks I suffered there....but it was my lovely husband who said..."Why in the world do you get so upset over people you meet on the internet?"

He was so darn right. Now if someone was in my face yelling, that might be different. On-line, I've learned to be bemused. After a stupid post from someone, I'd say to myself..."What the H*ll?" Then I would ponder and totally let it go. And I have learned not to respond, no matter how the good fight in me desires to do so. So I rather prefer saying out loud...loud enough for myself to hear good and well..."What an idiot!". Then I have a giggle. (Clearly, some people will think differently from me, and thats OKAY). My opinion, mine alone.

Because my dear, in the end, people will make their own decisions regarding the posts. And I've learned to not contest others posts (unless I think it is dangerous). That was hard to do, but each have their opinions, and I respect that. I am not a big fan of the zapper. And for awhile, every-time I would post somewhere, the same person would come on and say....Use the Zapper!! Personally that drove me nuts, but I never said a word.... I wonder if I'm starting to become that person...you must Oil Pull...NOW. Ha ha.

Actually, this website is like Grand Central Station. I'm amazed we don't have far more trolls than we do? It's a shame when our regulars start acting like a bunch of kindergartners though. But you sort or have to laugh.

And when people are misbehaving, like we saw on the forum of one of our newest members, you can just sit at home, reading, shaking your head and saying...whoa...what a(n) idiot(s)! Keeping our sense of humors is all part and parcel of the healing process, right?

Curezone is still a wonderful, lovely place. And like any public place, there is ebb and flow.

Anyway, I hope I didn't upset ANYone?? Just being totally honest here.

So, I know you are able to overcome this, and I think you know you will be sorely missed. Ignore, Hopsino, just ignore.

Love, Molly







 

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