Date:   12/20/2006 12:22:40 PM ( 18 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=795360

As a previous post mentioned, passion will inevitably fade and I am in 100% agreement that a marriage or union of ANY type should never, ever be based upon passion. Honesty, intetgrity, trust, and safety are the bases of a healthy, long-term relationship. Passion can be found in a bar, on a corner, at a grocery store, or in a corporate office. Passion has nothing to do with love.

Keeping these things in mind, it may be a wise move to consult a marriage counselor or look into a marriage seminar. Both of these resources will be able to teach management techniques, enhancing sexual activity, and communication skills that are so vital for a healthy relationship.

For goodness sake, please, think twice about using p 0 r n o g r a p h i c materials as an aid to fan the flames - what someone is seeing (particularly males) in p 0 r n o g r a p h y is a> NOT representative of love, b> NOT representative of healthy sexual activity, c> NOT representative of healthy emotional support, and d> can infect a person's psyche enough to create serious issues. And, in this day of rampant diseases, a one-time sexual fling with someone that you think that you know, or an anonymous encounter, can result in a long, miserable death, let alone the emotional ramifications of a random sexual encounter.

Best of luck to you!
 

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