Date:   9/23/2006 8:42:19 AM ( 18 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=741304

Hi,

You and your partner will be the only ones who will know whether or not to end the relationship or stay together.

A relationship HAS to be built on trust. That is the foundation of any relationship....with your children, your friends, your parents, etc. If you don't have it, little cracks will soon appear and then the dam will break.

People who have left their partners for others will always have to deal with the trust thing because they deceived their partners to be together. Sometimes these affairs are what I call "gappers" because they provide the bridge in which to transfer from being a couple to not being a couple. Very rarely do the "gappers" last. "Gappers" do serve a purpose because a person in an unhappy relationship would probably never have the nerve to leave if it were not for the "gapper."

If you want to remain with this partner, only time will tell.

For now, enjoy every minute with this person. Believe it or not, it's a great time in your life. If it's passion that led you to this person, it will fade. If it's an emotional bonding, it will remain.

But, regardless of what happens, you will always have the memories of this love....and like the old saying..."It is better to have loved than never to have loved at all."

Paulette
 

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