Date:   9/3/2006 7:03:24 PM ( 19 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=729285

Thank you for your concern.
It's hard to talk to my husband, he is discreet with his inner thoughts. I think mainly because of my reactions.
We've been through some counceling, but it didn't help too much. I have hard time relating to him, he is the source of my stress and irritation most of the time. I am sure he feels the same way about me. I recently started having doubts about christianity, and stopped going to church...that put even bigger gap between us. He now sees me as 'dissilussioned', 'heathen', someone who needs to be prayed for...
Well, that's pretty irritating.
He also blames many of our problems on my hormones.. :-)
I do have problems with hormones and and my adrenals, but it doesn't mean there are no problems in marriage....
We'll see what happens...
when we got married we hardly knew each other....I probably wouldn't get married to him if I knew him better (although he is a pretty nice guy).
He already made it clear in the beginning of marriage (to one of his friends) that if he knew me longer, he wouldn't get married to me. But then he 'thinks' God put us together so fast, so we would marry. ..whatever..

I never had passion for him, and he is pretty passive himself. I am a very passionate and chaning person by nature, so it's not working too great in that department.
I am sure I am guilty of many things myself in this relationship too.
 

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