Date:   5/5/2006 3:11:55 PM ( 18 y ago)
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The cruel part? I think it's cruel to focus on wanting your own child so bad when for some reason God or Nature doesn't want you to have one, and THEN not adopting a needy child INSTEAD, if you want a child that bad. It's cruel to children who are already in need.

Sure IVF is selfish. Self-centered, whatever you want to call it. Again, if for some reason someone is not meant to have a child the natural way, then go forcing it because they want a child of their own SO BAD. They are thinking of themselves.

Are people thinking of the child when they want to have one THAT BAD that looks like them, bad enough to go forcing the issue? No, they're thinking of themselves.

Think about it, it makes sense. They're thinking only of THEMSELVES and what THEY want, not the child. I don't care if it's biological or not. You can disagree all you want, but I'm a mother, and because I am a mother I understand. ARE YOU?

And what's up with this statement?:

<<<"What's selfish is forcing people to have kids who don't want them to further their agenda and then call people who do IVF selfish becasue they don't take all the unwanted kids. I see selfishness, arrogance, and hippocracy in that.">>>

WTF Atalanta??? Did you FLIPPIN' FORGET that I'm on the Pro-Choice side???


 

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