Date:   4/17/2006 7:02:40 AM ( 19 y ago)
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where do i begin to respond to this? Super, when people respond to you - you don't listen and that gets frustrating.

I'm sorry if you feel that i picked on you - I answered your posts because you were the one on the other side of this debate. When you went back to read my posts - i'm sure you found that I've only tried to steer you away from making comments just like this. when you say things like 'you people' it infers ALL of us. By reading your post to me - one would think that I said you were a bad father, etc. I haven't done that.

I've only tried to encourage you to see that you can't lump everyone who has beliefs different from yours into one group - but you haven't listened and that makes your posts seem irrevelant or uninformed and 'ignorant'. I did not say you were ignorant - I said your post was ignorant.

My intent was to help see that not all pro-choicers are the same - and not all women who have abortions are the same - and certainly not all in the way that you view them. Your posts have been aimed at doing just that - There were a couple of times when you sounded like you got it - when you admitted that it wasn't your finest hour... but then you kept posting it as if you were proud of it.

The women on this board are not all athiest, haters and hate men and Christmas and all the other goofy things you said. Women who have abortions are not all like you describe (samantha). How does one respond to that? It's so ridiculous that you would even think it - and like i said before - unbelievable that you would post such stuff. The women on this board (and a couple of men) have kindly tried you to let you know that those types of posts are insulting and a waste of time.

Would you like to be stereotyped to be just like every other pro-lifer or every other born again Christian? Do you see how absurd that would be? You didn't like it when it was done to you!

The reason I ask you to go out into the world and get to know others (that you seem to have such low opinions about) - is so that you will find that they are all human and worthy of love and life - just as you are. That they have families who are just as loved as your family is. In spending even a few days in any of those places I mentioned - I thought you could see that there is another side to every story. That you don't know what others are thinking and feeling. I thought perhaps it was something you needed to experience for yourself - because your mind seems closed.

After trying so many times to explain to you that your posts were insulting and were not helping your case - and seeing you continuing to do it over and over again - it was hard for me to take you seriously at all.

Sorry, I've shared more about my family to you than I wanted to.



 

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