Date:   3/2/2006 1:54:47 PM ( 19 y ago)
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I have been seeing this guy for about a year. We had good and bad times but I am having a hard time trusting him. It's been alot of drama on his end and I'm not sure why.

It started in the very beginning. We would be out somewhere with his friends and he would be pointing and talking about how attracted he is to other woman in front of me. Of course he didn't want for me to hear but I did. This stopped after a few months of me trying to justify why it hurts my feelings.

Then, one night he got drunk (not a surprise) and told me that he wanted to have sex with my friend. This he forgot saying and wouldn't even argue with me about it.

After this his friends signed him up for some internet dating thing. They cheat on their girlfriends with this site and want for him to do the same. I got angry and fought with him about it. After three months he took it down. Two weeks later it went back up. His friends put it back up. It is now down again. His friends would like for us to break up. The forbid him to bring me out because they want to be "just guys". (their girlfriends stay at home while they are searching for other girls)

Now, I am no longer invited out with him and his friends because they do not want for me to see what they are doing. My boyfriend admits that they "check out" girls and may talk about "getting with them" but it means nothing. That all guys do this.
And, that I mean so much to him. He feels that it's o.k. to act this way because the other girlfriends don't get mad. I shouldn't either.

I guess this is what I need advice on. Do all men act like this when their woman aren't around? are any men happy enough with their own woman that they wouldn't get these thoughts of temptation? It hurts my feelings to know that my guy is thinking about having sex then after he's done partying he comes home to me. is this normal? or am I just being set up for a cheating man? I go out with my friends and see attractive men, but I feel bad thinking about actually being with them. I know this would hurt my boyfriend.

Any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you.
 

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