Date:   11/24/2005 6:20:54 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Hi H0ppy! Yes, it did help him a lot once he heard that she felt she made a mistake. He said at first it made him angry. I TOLD him that it would happen eventually. I told him he was angry because she left him without warning and took his family away and now she's sorry. He said it was that way throughout their marriage. He litterally caught her in bed with two of the men she cheated with. She would just say "I'm sorry, I just wanted to see what it was like with another man."!!!

Well, I made a mistake tonite. He called and I got emotional and asked him why he didn't ever include my daughter and I and he told me that he wanted to focus on his boys since he didn't get to see them but a few times a year. He acted like I was being selfish. I told him I just wanted us to spend time together as a couple and take our kids to do something together. I also told him that how are we going to be together when every time his kids come down he isolates them and himself from me. So needless to say we got into an argument. We are supposed to see each other later tonite, but I am thinking about telling him we need a break. I am getting way too emotional and I can't seem to get control of my self. I feel like we've been together so long and we should be moving forward not backwards. I want to try the showering him with affection thing, but it is kind of hard when you get pushed away when you do it. It just kills me. I am such an emotional being. Why do I have to be like this? I told him the other day I wish I could control my emotions like he does. I am also old fashioned in the sense the girl shouldn't chase the guy. Thanks for your support! Have a good evening.
 

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