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Re: Is it ok to marry a man for financial security? by Autumn ..... Relationship Support Forum

Date:   5/4/2005 2:34:02 PM ( 20 y ago)
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Hello, dear 23817,

I was really touched by your story. But I'm sure no expert, so please do just brush this off if it doesn't fit, ok?

So sure, you want your youngest daughter especially to be safe at school, that makes a whole lot of sense. Just free-associating here... about finding housing with another single mom maybe, or getting a part time job at a better high school in exchange for a tuition break there. Don't know, just dreaming here...

My concern was the words "Stupid" and "Bitch." I was wondering... maybe seeing that could really hurt your daughters, especially if they get the idea that you are living with those words for their sake?

Also some wealthy husbands once they are married end up giving their wives very little actual support!
I would imagine there will be a pre-nuptial agreement, and that may reveal a lot about his ideas in this direction.

I truly apologize if I said too much, it was just something that has come to mind because of situations in my own life.

Meanwhile, it sounds like you are doing active long-term planning to improve life for yourself and your daughters. More power to you, Sister!

A

 

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