Date:   11/27/2004 9:41:28 PM ( 20 y ago)
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ok...we broke up 5 months ago! She wants to remain friends, and I just cannot because I have so many feelings still. Its not like I just woke up and got over her, and right now I dont want to hear about the good things going on in her life. Maybe we can chat and be friends down the line, but now I just cannot. It is easier for me to be distant, than to act like I am happy for her or myself. Now, she wants friendship and is upset because we were such great friends in the past and she wants that back. She says she misses me. I think she does like I miss her, but I dont think staying in contact is a wise thing to allow us to move on.

So ya'll...what are your thoughts??? Is it possible to be friends with an ex and to push feelings aside? If so, is that really healthy?

Am I cruel if I say sorry I just cannot do it, too many feelings. Am I not being fair to her needs/wants?

Please help!
 

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