Date:   8/16/2004 1:03:01 PM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=666704

Well, I've kind of expected these answers, and I was fearing them. Well, my boyfriend is actually very attractive, but I do find myself often looking at other men. This is what I'm confused about...I was once in a realtionship before him, with a guy that I absolutely adored and loved, but the relationship was SO bad that we broke up. Now I have the total opposite...a wonderful relationship, but no desire. The thing is the day-to-day thing is great with us, we get along very well. I often thought of breaking up, but I never had the strength of doing so, because I always knew that YES I will meet somone that I am more attracted to, but I also know that I will NOT have such a wonderful realtionship at the same time. I gues the reason that is holding me back from either moving forward or breaking up, is that I am 1. scared if breaking up I will regret it one day, as I might realize that the passion is not the most important thing in life, or 2. be unhappy in my future life with him. To put it into words, I'm STUCK. I have thought about doing counselling, but not sure if this is the right thing to do. I wonder though what makes happier: A good realtionship with no spark, or a not so good realtionship with spark? But spark does go away with time anyway doesn't it? What Anna said might be tru also, I have seen a documentary about what she said on BBC once.... Gosh, why do things have to be so complicated?

Thanks a lot for your replies ;-)
 

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