Date:   7/6/2004 3:51:30 PM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=666267

Hi there,

Last year my partner finished with me after 5 years very much out of the blue, I was devastated. Nearly had breakdown etc. etc. But he was adamant that he wanted to be alone. After about 4 weeks I started to come round and try and get on. I was completely alone in different country from my family etc.. After a couple of months I turned my life around, found new friends, got healthy, new boyfriend even. I felt so good for the first time.

6 months after the split he came back begging forgiveness and a new start, I said no. He begged for 3 months before I took him back. I am now strong and confident and in control of this relationship. If we finish again it will be me that does it!!!

The key to my success (?!) was not seeing him or having any communication with him at all. I have child from previous relationship, not his and he was like step-dad to her but I never let him near us. I just went off and re-built myself.

You must do the same, you can't carry on living in the same house. Be strong and tell him to go or move yourself. If he comes back fine, if not you'll be better off.

Please believe me when I say it will get better, I promise.

God Bless,

A x
 

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