Date:   7/6/2004 8:22:39 AM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=666263

Oh boy! My heart truly goes out to you. What brought about the break up?

Do you have any good friends or family who support you? You will need someone to talk to, and lots of hugs :)
How old is your son? What arrangements are being made regarding visitation and custody?
Do whatever you can to pull yourself together for your child, he will need his mommy to be strong and supportive for him. Remember it is shaking his world also, so do whatever you can to keep his routines and life stable. Do everything you can to reassure him that you love him and won't be leaving.

If your "ex" is so sure that the relationship is over, there isn't much you can do to convince him otherwise. Just be yourself, and concentrate on you and your son. Find something the two of you can do together and seperately. Surround yourself with friends and family....make yourselves busy (but not too busy) so the time will pass, and you will find that with each day it gets easier to go on...the pain will subside and you will be able to enjoy life and yourself.

I hope this helps, if you need anything else...please come talk...this is what this forum is for.
 

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