Date:   2/19/2004 12:44:07 AM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=665454

>I am afraid of leading someone on and potentially hurting
>their feelings mainly because I am still hurting from the
>last man.

>I wish I could just be friends with a man first and see
>what develops.

Tell them these upfront. If the guy really likes you (i.e. if he feels you are the one), he should be willing to wait for you, or even help you heal.

If he doesn't, then his motive is probably not a LTR-leading-to-marriage to begin with.

However, keep in mind the probability of meeting the former is probably lower than that of the latter.


 

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