Date:   4/6/2004 5:08:28 AM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=623328

OK let us imagine for sake of argument that there was "something in your numbers" that was "working against you". Presumably this would be a function of your birthdays, wedding day, day you met. What exactly about these dates could you remedy? Are you going to change your birthday?

If "something" is working against you (based on these dates) then it is still going to be working against you regardless of what you do since these dates are fixed.

It seems to me that marital problems exist in all marriages. Whether they strengthen or break a marriage is up to the people involved in that marriage. Looking for outside factors to blame is not the way to solve marital (or any other kind) of problem as it abdicates any kind of responsibility.

It is only when we take responsibility for the situations we find ourselves in can we take effective action. Whether that is chronic illness or a relationship which isn't as we imagined it to be.


 

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