Date:   3/6/2003 1:13:00 PM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61822

This is a perfect time for you to build your self esteem and that has absolutely nothing to do with oyur girl friend. Do things that you feel good about. If you are working, focus on your work; if you are not, get a job. In the spare time, read books, make solo trips to places- maybe just go on a cruise to bahamas......get creative. just pamper yourself. Nobody will feel good about you if you don't feel good about yourself. Boost up your self confidence by making yourself useful to others.

Let go of her. She is not the one for you for sure. You don't have to have a girl-friend all the time. First work on yourself- the day you feel you are strongconfident enough to not let your moods be affected by other pepole in your life, go ahead and look for your soulmate.

If your girl friend is saying the kind of things she is and you accept them to be right, you have a serious problem. You depend so much on her. You ought not do that. Do things,go places on your own. Meet more people. Do anything minus her.

Being alone does not being lonely. Solitude can be bless sometimes. gives you time to think about yourself, the deeper things in life. give yourself time away from the routine.

and suicide is no solution. its hardly worth losing one's life for someone who does not even care for you. Well we sure care a lot for you and would like to see you come out of this beautifully.

take care and keep writing in to keep us posted
 

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