Date:   1/27/2003 9:48:24 AM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61595

Hi, well, my girlfriend dumped me couple weeks ago because she said she doesn't want a relationship after we've only been going out for two months. although it was only two months, a lot has happened that we did together. a lot of stuff that was great and nice. We argued sometimes, but then we'd talk trhough things and eventually they never came up again. The week before she dumped me, she went away somewhere without telling me and without calling me so it was like she dissappeared. I kept trying to call her but she wasn't at home. anyways, when she came back, I tried to tell her about how she wasn't committed enough. big mistake I guess because she said that maybe we should take a break. so I gave her the space and everything and yet, after the week, she told me she didn't want the relationship. although we talked once again about the problems she found with it and found ways of working them out, she just didn't want to put in the effort. It was like she thought that realtionships aren't worth anything. now, I, myself, am emotional and what happened hurt me a lot. I can't even describe really how frustrated and totally unhappy I've been. I mean, I tried so hard to fix things and everything and yet, it was in the end a waste...It's just that I loved her so much and nothing came of it. she said that even though she may have feelings for me she still didn't want a relationship. I just don't think she should throw it away like this. I don't understand how she changed her mind. I mean, what happened to all the feelings she felt for me before she went away? it was like she just forgot everything. and I'm left alone, angry at the world for letting this happen. my friends all tell me to move on and I understand why, but I don't think this should just be left to die. I don't think it deserves to be just forgotten. I feel like I want to win her back, but whether I can or not, the answer most likely would be not. but if there was a small chance that I could, I think I should try. what should I do? I can't get over this. I can't even talk to her or make eye contact with her in the hall. but I know that if I'm to get through this something must be done. but what?
 

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