Date:   1/23/2003 1:09:55 PM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61573

Gotta disagree with you here - firmly telling family to BUG OFF after dumping all sorts of garbage about the girlfriend is not going to help when family feels a sense of loyalty to stand by their son and also hurt by the girlfriend's exchange - and it will only create more hard feelings and additional problems if there's a future for this relationship. Siding up against an 'enemy' is what started the problem. You create healthy boundaries by taking control of your life and how you live it - not by erecting walls with harsh emotions.
 

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