Date:   1/17/2003 7:39:53 PM ( 21 y ago)
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Hi there

i can see this problem from both sides of the story to be honest. As a girl i can understand why you would be appalled at finding such things. i would go mad at my boyfriend aswell.

On the other hand, you can think of it this way. He says they dont mean anything...and u say they were hidden away where he probably didn't even know where they were. I think it would have been a bigger issue if they were in his draw next to his bed or under his pillow?

An ex boyfriend of mine wrote beautiful songs for his old girlfriend before me, and she had written him lovely, lovely letters...i came along and found out he had kep all of them, including photos of them together...and i made him throw them all away. I regret it now...because they didn't mean anything, and i knew that deep down..they were lovely things to keep..just to remind him of a time when he was young and in love.

At the end of the day...ask yourself this...who does he kiss? who does he come home to? who does he cuddle up to? who does he share his life with NOW?...you. It seems obvious he loves you, he threw them away, even though he didn't want to...because he wanted to make you happy.

At the end of the day, would he be with you if he really wanted to be with her?

I hope you can both come to a compromise. It'd be silly to let a thing like this ruin something you obviously think is very special.

I can understand why your hurt....but why dont you replace those pictures with some of yourself? might sound a bit weird...but have a joke about it, laugh at it...and have some fun!

hope this was of some help ;)
 

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