Date:   1/17/2003 6:30:26 PM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61494

I had a relationship similar in the past.
My advice: DON'T PUT UP WITH HER BULLS**T

You sound really timid, like you're afriad to have feelings. Your afraid to say you love; you're afraid to say you're jealous.

Why shouldn't you be jealous. She shouldn't just stomp all over your feeling just because she has friends around. I have Male friends too and I don't treat my boyfriend like dirt just because there's another male in the room. This is trashy behavior and definatly out of line. Maybe you should be a little more assertive. Girls like when thier men to be at least somewhat assertive. Maybe this would get her more interested in talking to you.

Don't get me wrong though. I'm not telling you to get overly territorial. Yeah she should be able to go out with her freinds. But DO put your foot down, however. If you don't like the way she flirts with other guys because it makes you feel like crap then you DON'T put up with it.
 

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