Date:   12/29/2002 1:32:05 AM ( 22 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61429

Dear Southern Belle,

you are wonderful, so quick and your reply seems really to the point! Thank you, I am just leaving on holiday with Lida and needed to set up my mind somehow - why should i suffer if she doesn't care?

I am 35 and she is 21. Also note, her sexual history is very brief and ... how to say it ... she is only learning to enjoy sex, I am her first real lover, I mean she had sex before, but she only started to like it with me and she hasn't had orgasm yet, so this might be a factor too - not much desire to see me.

I am so sorry, but you are probably right, she is not ready for a real relationship yet, so ... she wants to play, i will play - that doesn't prevent me from caring about her well being but i shouldn't expect anything serious, although she calls it that way

Now the question is - should i tell her what i think?

If i tell her, that won't make her a more commited girfriend, just upset her. If I don't tell her she will not know what my true feelings and expectations are. Not very honest.

What do you think? For the time being, I will act like nothing's wrong, just stop trying this hard.
 

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