Date:   12/11/2002 6:12:35 PM ( 22 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61423

Dear Sarah (owner of a golden heart),
It is not normal,
All guys are not like that. Most guys are not like that. Most people in the world are not like that. It is NOT normal. Do not conjure up ways that you could blame yourself or think that you deserve this. Nobody in the world deserves to be treated like you are being treated. It is not normal, you are a victim of altruism, a victim of your own kindness and love. Learn to respect yourself too much to ever let this happen again. Don't develop a bad outlook on life. There are two ways people can react to a bad situation, they can become BITTER or BETTER. Do not become BITTER, become BETTER. Get out of that situation and get on with life. Even after you get on with life, don't live life with a bad attitude, that will make you unhappy. This guy is SLIME AND A HALF. Don't wait until he does something illegal, get out now and salvage your life. You have the ability to feel pain (hurt) in your heart. Pain felt in the heart means that you can feel and GIVE love. Don't waste yourself on him. Don't become militant, bossy or agressive, retain your identity. Life is too short, you only get one chance at it, no do-overs. Like I've learned in life, we cannot waste the years. But we're not like the stars of the sky, we're of a different state of being and have control over our existence. It is a starlight that shines upon us, but we don't have too much time on stage.

THE STAR OF LIFE

Of moons and planets is the celestial sphere,
And when darkness falls, the twinkles appear,
Peircing the shadows without purpose.

But a world away, we fear that as fate,
never understanding we're of a different state,
and forever search for the meaning of life.

Wisdom is lost by a misplaced word,
and the question formed, completely absurd,
then darkness falls and becomes our fate.

But the theater of life is in our control,
we write the script and play the lead role,
and the light shines upon us, for we are THE STAR OF LIFE.

 

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