Date:   12/9/2002 4:51:40 PM ( 22 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61420

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. neither of us has prior long term relationship experience. We met at college and things have been okay between us. We've had fights, but have been working them out. When he graduated he got a job up in Seattle and so he had to move there. I still have another year to finish. initially, he said he will be there for one year, now wth this bad economy he is thinking of staying there for another 2-3 years. I really don't know what to do. I understand that his career is important to him, but I just don't know how to deal with this. We tried breaking up ,but it's totally impossible...I am soo used to having him in my life. When I ask him if he can see us together for the rest of our lives? He says "he doesn'k know!!" He has expressed to me that he thinks he really needs to see other women(as friends) to make sure that he feels love for me. But he says that's for our sake. I don't feel like I need to see other guys. I do feel like he is totally the person I am looking for. I know for fact that he is not seeing anyone else at this time and I know for fact that he cares a lot about me. What should I do? The fact that he doesn't know if I am the one is realllyyy hurting me. At times, I think that he is waiting to meet someone and then break up with me? or even feel that I am acting as a back up for him? Should I break up?
 

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