Date:   9/21/2002 2:17:11 AM ( 22 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61381

I'm in my early 20s and mostly concentrating on school right now. I've never really had a long-term relationship with a guy. Every guy turns out to be either a very short week-long fling or, if I'm lucky, will turn out to be a short-term relationship. My longest lasting relationship has been 3 months!!! I'm always meeting guys that turn out to be real a$$holes, and I'm not the type of girl to tolerate that. I will send a guy on his way before I let him abuse me that way. Mostly I'm always meeting guys with the "jekyll and hyde" syndrome. They're the sweetest angels when I meet them, and then somewhere down the short-term line they turn into hideous monsters that can't be trusted. I know I'm also not without fault, due to my fear of commitment. I'm watching everyone around me so happy and in love, all of my friends and people my own age are happily dating and getting engaged and I'm sitting on the sidelines just watching, but not actually playing the field. I know I'm afraid of commitment and breakups and divorce, but I do want to get married and have a family someday, and I don't want to wait until I'm too old, I feel this should be the perfect time to meet "the one" since I'm in my early 20s... I'm also constantly seeing people break up every day and cheating, and always hearing about divorces. This might be why I'm so afraid of commitment. I'm convinced even if you meet "the one" somewhere down the line you're destined to divorce, it seems the "in" thing to do nowadays, and this is what I'm scared of. I observe the guys around me, guys I know, friends, classmates, friend's bf's, my own siblings, and I'm convinced guys are incapable of resisting temptation and cheating, they are nothing but horny bastards with wandering eyes and "other things" I'd rather not mention lol.. is it even possible for guys to be faithful??? (by the way I know women cheat too and aren't always innocent, but that's not my question)
 

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