Date:   5/22/2002 10:10:46 PM ( 22 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=61336

Did this guy marry you under duress? Seems to me there are a whole lot more important things to worry about. This must have been happening the whole time since you met him, and you still haven't sorted it out? Why did he marry you? Why did you marry him? those are the questions that will provide the answers here.
What ever happened to trust?

Have you looked on the phone bill to see how long the phone calls last? Are they for only 10 minutes, long enough to discuss the issue, or are they for 2 hours? long enough to discuss their reconcilliation after he leaves you?
Are the phone calls made by him at a decent hour of the day, or are they at 2 am while you are safely tucked up in bed? and you won't hear the conversation?

Why don't you suggest to your new husband that if either of you were to have an accident in this car, this other lady would be up for the costs. How about after you've had the baby your planning and you have an accident? If anything serious happens, are you insured, driving a car which doesn't belong to you?

I think you should give it a break! He married you, not her, unless he's an idiot, most people marry for all the right reasons.

Some more advice? Forget about bringing another innocent baby into this life until you get in touch with your feelings, because believe me, this is peanuts compared with what you will experience in the way of worry once you have notched up some married history together.

 

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