Date:   5/13/2002 9:22:52 PM ( 22 y ago)
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dear what to believe,
I think it all boils down to trust and loyalty-trust from your side and loyalty from your husband. I think it is normal that you'll feel uneasy since they do share some things of the past but they are things of the past. I believe you should trust your husband and yet still be cautious so as to safe keep your relationship. May I suggest that, in order to minimize their communication, try to expedite all the bill payments.Or even persuade your husband to have the title of the car transferred to him immediately. I suppose it is okay to let your husband know that you are feeling insecure by his actions, and in order for him to have your trust, he must minimize communication with his ex-girlfriend. If he loves you, I believe he wouldn't want to see you hurt. Anyway, please don't get so edgy at all times, as it may be annoying to your husband. Just let him know that you love him very much, and you want him all for yourself! Sounds selfish but i suppose this is one of the approach I could think of. All the best to you. I hope you'll have a long lasting and a very happy marriage.














 

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