Date:   10/27/2003 10:48:30 AM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=595012

There's something painfully simple about relationships IF YOU A REALIST! I'm talking really, really honest and straight up with her. If she (or he for that matter) is playing games, running around, not wanting intimacy, whatever during dating...dump 'em. Chances are great that they are not going to change. And a better question: why would you want to waste time "changing" someone? I have been blessed with the best relationships because I hold onto no one..that's NO ONE...who plays games and isn't true. I dump them quickly and move on forgetting that I ever knew them. You only have so many years to find the right one. It's like when you run a business and start realizing that some of the employees you hired a year ago just aren't the same people you thought they would be now. If you run a railroad correctly you will fire them for the good of the business...wouldn't you? Of course you would. Same thing in relationships. I'm not in the business of psycho-analyzing each and every gal that passes through. If she is "the total package" and has all the bases covered as I have found a gem that fits that category...that's the one for me! The others were just good times and education 101 subjects...which isn't a bad thing either.
 

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