Date:   10/17/2003 3:43:00 PM ( 21 y ago)
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Well the thing is, she just doesn't like the 'going behind her back' part. Before I confessed that I had done so, I could ask her what the email was about and she would tell me. I could ask her how often she emailed her ex and she would tell me. I don't believe she's lying to me, so I don't think she is being 'secretive' just doesn't want me sneaking around behind her back. This all stems from the fact that in her exrelationship her boyfriend saw her email account open one day and decided to read it. He saw that she had emailed a friend about going to see him. What he didn't realize was the relationship they had .. just a friendship. But he took 'going to see him' as meaning an affair. He didn't relate this to her, and after she came back from visiting him (he lived in another state), her boyfriend had moved out on her.

So I can see why she is so worried about going behind her back, and any information I want all I have to do is ask. So in this situation, is there really a problem? Do you still think I should just stop my actions of going behind her back and not relate anything else about what I have done?
 

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