Date:   12/23/2004 1:25:56 AM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=56601

I can't say why your daughter, But I can say this. No matter how horrid the system is, never stop trying to do what is right for your daughter. You are teaching her what she should do by example.

Teach her with eyes wide open. Provide examples that she can see and is at a level to comprehend. Pray for her, I'll pray for you both.

As she gets older it will pass. She may never forget, but she will heal. As she lets go and tries to be a normal little girl, You need to find a way to forgive your guilt. If you can't she will feel it and she will have to continue living with it. Don't kill your emotions with the "If I could'ves" Focus on the "What I have to do's."

Even CPS wants to see a healthy family unit that is moving forward and living life.

If you're lucky she may point him out to you. You will have the chance to get awnsers, Like why your daughter, or why anyone at all. You may in fact save the boy from his own nightmare. But you could find yourself equally lucky and her never be hurt by, upset by, or she him again.

I am a 31 year old mother of 4 well informed children ages ranging from 10-16. {that's no type-O} I was also a very hurt little girl who was really messed up mentally because of molestaions and rapes from a countless number of men from 4years- 13years and my mother's inability to hear the things I told her. When I became pragnant at age 11, I realized how screwed up I might be. I read every book I could find, watched every documentary I could. I found a level of comprehension that changed my mentality.

It's not that my mom didn't care, it just never registared in her mind. I told her about one rape when I was 9 and she didn't achive comprehension untill I was 11. If but one thing took twq years and still resaulted in no action, I had no reason to tell her more.

For your daughter (and me too:) be strong and jump through all the hoops that make things feel so impossible. With your strength you can teach her how no to be a victim anymore.



 

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