My 3 year old was molested - Where do I go from here? by #30674 ..... Child Sexual Abuse Survivors Support
Date: 9/16/2004 3:40:58 PM ( 21 y ago)
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My little girl was molested approximatley 6 months ago by who we think to be a pre-teen or teen-age boy. At the time we did not have a suspect. She verbally told me and has gone on to verbally tell me more as she becomes more verbal. Also there have been increased "acting out" behavior from her.
I took my daughter to the doctor and told a counselor. Of course CPS was called in and to me that made matters worst because I was then investigated. This really makes me mad because I am already dealing with guilt and my daughters feelings but to have to endure that to makes me understand why people do not tell!!!
I am afraid to seek help for my daughter (and for me-my emotions) because of the fear that I might get blamed for neglect. When in my heart I know that this was not my fault. The CPS case has been closed but now I do not trust any government agency and even fear this site. That is crazy, is it not?
But because I want to help my daughter heal from this disgusting event I have to try. I am so angry that this has happened to my daughter that I just want to hate male person even little boys especially black boys because it was a black boy that did this. I am so angry that she has to feel the emotions that she is feeling and I have to teach her what the appropriate touches are for little girls.
These acts should never occur but they consistenly keep happening to our innocent youth and children and now this has actually happened to my little girl. What do I do to make things better?
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