Date:   5/30/2004 11:46:20 AM ( 20 y ago)
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Thats what I wanted someone to say, Ted. Thanks.

Its not right, it is abuse, but it is also understandable for a young man to wonder what a vagina ia like, and a sister provides, unfortunatly, the opportunity.

13 is tough. Really tough to know what is expected of you. Its odd that parental guidance has not helped many figure it out. Neither has the church-stuff, obviously. It seems to put that guilt onto sex that leads to unhealthy ways of dealing with the desires and the taboos that must be handled so expertly. Its not enough to say "don't touch that", because that does not address the desires.

Sexuality is real. Sex happens. For some, they will feel left out and like they are abandoning their own feelings at a time when they are growing up and losing certain childhood conforts too.
I know I was just too afraid to "go for it" as an adolescent due to guilt, and sex is still not very real to me.Confidence can be gained by knowing the well defined boundaries of personal and social tolerances, as well as paying attention to one's own feelings and needs{should these go unsatisfied in young people?

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