Date:   5/22/2004 7:32:29 PM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=56389

there is no simple answer, but i will tell you one thing, she will not forget. even if she forgets who it was, she will always know something is not right. she will feel shame and maybe never talk about it. now is the time to nip this in the bud, for all of your sakes. dont just let it go. there are to many of us out there, that where just let go of many years ago. we still live with the shame. i still feel that making love is nasty, i cant believe i just said. but, truthfully, thats how i feel. something happened to me. not sure what, but something. i do make love to my husband, and do enjoy it, but, in the back of my mind, there is turmoil. i have had a lot of therapy, and almost got hypnotised once to find out, but i chickened out!!! im still scared. im afraid it could have been a family member. so, now i live the rest of my life feeling this way. nip it in the bud now!!! this type of thing happens a lot more than we know. many of my friends feel that they have been molested, but everything has been, hush, hush. so, now we suffer. god bless you and yours, cloe
 

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