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Guilt, sin and shame by Wiz ..... Child Sexual Abuse Survivors Support

Date:   4/27/2004 8:26:36 PM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=56345

Hmmmm...

I haven't read all the responses, however here is my 2 cents (I have an adopted 10 year old little boy, so I have a bit of experience with children)

You may not like my opinion as you seem awfully focused on your son as a sinful abuser, however I'd advise you not to scar your kid for life by shaming him and laying a sin trip on him. Boy, you'd think he killed someone.

These are children. Children are curious. Especially little boys. He didn't hurt your daughter and unless YOU make a big deal of it, it won't be.

Tell him to stop because it's inappropriate. Then reinforce his positive instead of negative behavior, and for God sakes, don't make him feel like a child criminal ... and then move on.

Try a little of your Christian love and understanding. It works much better than ostracizing him with guilt and shame.

;0)

Wizard

 

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