Date:   7/17/2006 7:37:36 AM ( 18 y ago)
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Let me put a mans view

I had an affair which eventuallt cost me my marriage. I did leave my wife for the "other woman" who left her husband.

I went into the affair because my marriage had drifted. We had slept in separate rooms for nearly 5 years. No sex and no cuddles and I needed both.
She pilled the weight on caring and stopped

My "other woman" was in an abusive relationship. Her husband had raped her while she was asleep and I was the person there as a friend to comfort her. After 9 months this friendship evloved into love and we set up home together.

We survived but after 3 years I found out that she was cheating on me behind my back with her husband. So, we split. She went back and is now being abused again.

All very sad. But please be aware. Not all men are preditors and not all men are rats. For a man to stray there is often a reason.

I hope you sort things out with your husband. Talking is needed to get to the root cause. Ask him!!
 

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