Date:   6/11/2006 8:32:55 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Hi Alikat! I need to admit it's nice to have someone who's "been there done that" talking to me.I kinda feel alone now cause I have told all of that to one of my personal friends and she seemed to believe I was heartless...Maybe one day you would be willing to tell me what was your situation?
O.K I have to admit myself that I did not give a lot of info.
So here it is
I have been with the guy for about 3 months and even though we never realy made it "official" with words,in my heart we were.
But usualy -or every guys I have been with,anyways- Would want or would consider sex after awhile.But he was different.At first I thought that maybe he wasn't very interested in me(even though he was always telling me that I was pretty and all...)And asked him if he realy liked me.His answer was that he realy realy liked me.But everytime I try (or tried,rather)to make a move on him he would nicely push me away.
One day we started to "play around" but again he pushed me away.I got mad and asked him why he was always doing that. "am I that unatractive to you" and "are you trying to tell me you don't like me anymore" And that's when he told me that he was asexual.
I do realy like him and wish that it's all a bad dream. I don't want you to confuse me with being a "slut" but I do believe that sex is important in a relationship,and I think that in the end we both would be very unhappy.

Thank you for your letter it was well appreciated!
Specialy since you know what I am going through.
Take care! And keep in touch
P.S Thanks for defending me in the other letter you wrote earlier.
 

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