Date:   2/14/2005 12:13:16 AM ( 20 y ago)
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It seems that only one or two people actually answered the question that was asked. It has gone to the question of are you attracted to black women as a white man. The answer to that question can cut deep into the heart of our society, and it can be a two edged sword.

I am a white man that has been predominantly attracted to women that look as though they had been decended from nortern european peoples. There were many women of color that I was attracted to, but for two reasons. 1. That particular womans beauty. 2. The forbidden friut factor, that enhances any curiosity that I may have had.

Then, a few months ago, while communicating over the internet, I fell in love with a black woman. Her words, her heart, her being is what I have fallen in love with. It is not about her skin, hair, shape, size or stature. It is about her, even though she lives many miles away and I have never been close to her physically.

Now I find, that black women attract me even more than the tall, thin blondes ever did. That is all point of view at the time.

But, in answer to your question, let's face it, people are people and each one is unique unto themselves. But, there still is some of the forbidden friut factor that plays into the equation. Myth and folklore increase that factor, whether we realize it or not. This will make the experience either better or worse depending on the two people involved in the experience.

So, as I see it, there is no clear cut answer to your question, it is to subjective an experience to be objective. Just enjoy the people, besides the worst woman I have ever had was wonderful.
 

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