Here's how you get past it by MisterDoug ..... Sex & Sexual Health Forum
Date: 1/21/2005 9:46:04 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Here's my two cents about that situation:
#1. Whoever did that to you is f#!cked up, period. You did not realize it when you were a small child, but now that you're older, you know that they sick and insane and there's really nothing you can do about it, it's just an injustice that you had to suffer.
I know 'cause I was also abused as a kid, and that's basically how I feel now. I still to this day wish I could kill my Dad, but I won't. About the only thing I can do is realize that he's crazy and sick, and avoid other sick people like that in my life. It sucks, but anyone who does something like that to someone is a scumbag and I would AVOID them, even if they ARE in your family, I would have nothing to do with them. That is the main problem with sociopaths, is they trick you into thinking that they're good people, when really you should stay as far away from them as possible. Don't be decieved, keep your distance.
If you start feeling very angry towards that person then that is a good thing. You should be angry, that sh*t is unbelievable.
That's how I've come to cope with my own abuse, I hope it can give you some insight...
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