Date:   9/25/2004 2:50:43 PM ( 21 y ago)
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You said:

Big money buys what big money wants a study to say.

I respond:

When one has no facts, one must use a Conspiracy theory in its place.

You said:

I took my normal infant daughter for a vaccination and she screamed on the way out of the door. We took her back to the pediatric doctor and he said she would be okay and that she only had a rare bad reaction to the shots. My daughter began hitting her head on the ground after the shots but the pediatric doctor said it had nothing to do with the shots. My daughter didn't stop screaming for over a year and she developed speech very slowly after that, avoided eye contact, and was developing physically and socially way behind babies that were her age. When she started school, she was diagnosed with Austism. You can't tell me the themerosal didn't cause her Autism. I was there... am there... and I blame the the Pediatrician who lied to me and my wife and the whole system that told us vaccinations were required for my children. Whatever study you dug up from the drug company propaganda is utter rubbish. Autism has gone up as the rate of vaccinations have gone up. The big lie is not from the parents of thousands of families with Autistic children but with the multi-billion dollar drug cartels who push drugs on our children to fill their pockets with money. I will not be fooled again.

I respond:

Finding that you have a seriously disabled child is one of the toughest things a parent has to live with. It changes your life, and you know that things wil never be the same.

My family went through this twice, once with my older son who has ADHD and once with my younger son who has CP.

We were angry. We lashed out. We wanted to blame someone. we went to sue the doctors. We wanted to sue the AMA.

Then, we came to our senses. We realized that playing the angry blame game wa snot helping our children, and we stopped being angry and looking to blame everyone or someone.

We got on with our parenting, and have never looked back. We are a very happy, content, family. We found that our friends with normal children have no time for us, as we are still actively invovled in my younger sons situation. Their loss. We mad enew friends. Better friends.

Let me suggest that you forget the blame game, too. Autism, ADHD, etc. are predominantly genetic, IMNSHO, and blaming anyone, even yourself, detracts from your parenting. Your child will know you are angry.


 

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