Date:   11/4/2005 10:48:52 AM ( 19 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=496200

By your comment are you condoning divorce? Is that support? What about good old communication? Why not try and work on the marriage relationship? And you are WRONG!!! How can you tell her everything is fine with her body when she may be going through early menopause or her hormones may not have been good for most of her adult life, thus no good orgasms or desire. This is far deeper than "taking responsibility for her current situation" as you state. What does THAT mean? Sounds like just do what you want and forget about the other person. That's why there are so many divorces because people don't communicate, it takes a lot of work and it's so much easier to just forget it and not confront it. Well, in answer to the initial comment, try to talk to him. Have you told him how you feel? This may need to be done several times or he may even need to hear it from another person, like maybe a Dr or close friend that you both can talk to. Just do whatever works, you have alot of years into this marriage, don't waste it invest in it. It's natural for sex not to be good sometimes(or most of the time) and if it is all the time there is probably something in your system that needs to be adjusted especially if you can't get yourself to a good orgasm. Save the marriage, communicate and get a blood test for your IGF-1, hormones, T3, T4, liver panel. This will tell you where you are yourself. That will be a good start.
Hope this helped.

 

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