Date:   12/4/2005 8:42:31 PM ( 20 y ago)
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Your correct, finding someone else is not the reason to get a divorce. I am glad that you was uncomfortable with his comment about the glares. Listen real good to what you know, what you hear, what he says, what he doesn't say.
You say he is saying her more frequently, yes that is good. Is he also taking care of the household bills of the marriage that he is obliged too, child support, house payment ? Is he with his child on holidays? Does he tell you what they do when he takaes the child? Does he take the child to his apartment where your friend a lady lives that could help tend to her/his needs, to his parents/family. Does he take care of the child himself. This will tell you a lot. Does he put the child in front of a tv set and call that a visit. Does he tickle the child to the point of exhausion and tears. Thats abuse. Did he cheat on his wife? Is he now? Lot's of questions you have to ask your self. Is going out with someone for coffee when your separated cheating on his wife? Did he converse with you he would like to see you, has he been trying for a real date? Is that cheating in your mind. Would you want your husband doing that, if you were separated? or would you want him getting counseling, and conversing with you on how to make your marriage work. I know I gave you a lot to think about. So I will close for now Saying Think, and it seems like you are, be strong in what you decide. If you decide not to see him, don't ask about him, because it's so easy to cave, in if its a sad story. God Cares, and so do I.
 

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