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you told us all so much. by harmony4me ..... Anorexia & Bulimia Forum

Date:   8/22/2005 12:44:53 PM ( 19 y ago)
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I cry for you that you are living in such pain.

I am sorry for that.

I am not a therapist so I am iffy as to what to post.

I really hear how much you want to be loved. It is terrible that this man can not love you. The things he says and does are no part of a loving relationship.
You are doing such harm to yourself trying to please him so he will evolve into a loving husband.

I don't know a simple 1 2 3 plan to let you grasp how great you are and how this relationship has morphed your sense of reality, maybe a good therapist or group to build up your self confidence - it doesn't have to be eating disorder based.
Just a safe place where you can find all the valve and strength in you.
Good luck
 

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