Date:   9/2/2005 1:30:51 PM ( 20 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=356310

>>>Seems as though you pretty much have your mind made up.<<<

Well, since I am an intelligent 46 year old female; 'have been involved in natural treatments & healing since the 1970's; 'have a clean 'bill of health' and know my body inside & out; 'have a 52 year old husband (with a fairly active sexual past) that swears I am far & away the most sexually responsive, enthusiastic, open-minded & giving woman he's ever met...I'd say that knowing whether or not I have a hormone imbalance is something that I'd defintitely be aware of - if I had one. So yes, I have my mind made up.

Are you insinuating that you have the ability to diagnose a hormone balance by reading my posts? And if you are, are you saying that I should listen to your diagnosis of my body based on what you've read? puhLEEZ!

>>>You are deceiving yourself on many issues.<<<

No, I am not deceiving myself. However, you are deceiving yourself if you've read my posts and feel as though you have the qualifications or knowledge to offer advice to me...especially when I NEVER asked for advice.

>>>Never did I say "get over it" <<<

Nor did I say that you did.

>>>and if things are so busy that you can't or don't take time to "get into the mood" because of your "busy life" then the sad fact is sister that one day you may wake up and find hubby distanced or gone, then it will be "what happened?" or "What did I do?"<<<

Wow, you truly are extremely judgemental, about a matter in which you are obviously clueless. I didn't say I was so busy that I can't/don't take the time to get into the mood. I simply indicated that I envy men because it's much quicker/easier for a male body to be prepared for sexual intercourse than it is for a female body.

>>>May sound harsh now but if and when it does happen I think these words will ring true. That's what I mean by deceiving yourself.<<<

Basically everything you've said in this thread sounds harsh to me, and your advice is also filled with the potential to cause great harm within a relationship (and to people's self-esteem). The CureZone is for "educating instead of medicating"...not advising people in a harsh, judgmental way.

Unyquity

P.S. Not having a lot of experience on this board, I have no way of knowing if #51062 is a known 'troll' or troublemaker. Hence, I will not be responding to any more posts by this person publicly, as I feel there's nothing constructive being shared or learned by our interaction. I will however respond to #51062 via email (if #51062 insists on continuing this negative interaction).
 

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