Date:   8/31/2005 6:39:19 PM ( 20 y ago)
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You'll "just have to watch closer?" Are you his mother or his wife. If he hides it's no wonder, I would hide too if my hubby came at me with that same thought. Maybe try to see it from his standpoint. You say you hide "clothes" from him. Which "hiding" is worse? You enjoy clothes, why do you feel you must hide it from him, he likes to look at nude women, (that's completely normal for a man, just the way some women like to look at nude men) either way you both are hiding, Just be adults and treat each other as such! Shop and be honest and tell him, when you see p 0 r n on his computer in a calm wondering manner, ask him what turns him on about it? Be genuinely interested, he will sense that and open up to you. The relationship you two could have could be FANTASTIC if you let it. Treat him as a MAN that he is, not your child. Show him respect as your Husband and you may be surprised at how he reacts, if you encourage him, do not be accusational with your statements-"you were married to a pathological liar..." maybe he lied because he wasn't allowed to be himself so he had to lie to try to keep you happy.
 

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