Date:   7/12/2006 2:17:09 AM ( 18 y ago)
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Please understand that I'm not trying to be flip or condescending but 15 is a tough age to be. At 15, I, too, felt a lot of the same feelings you are now feeling. Just wondering--do you consider yourself to be shy and introverted? If so, it is harder to make friends and mix with others--I know. Don't be so hard on yourself. I remember many summers when I felt lonely, too. Since I never had a big circle of friends (2 or 3 if I was lucky)when one went on vacation, it often meant that I had no one to hang out with. From reading your letter, I pick up that you want to make changes and seem motivated to do so. Being half Hispanic, I know what it is like to feel out of place. And it just wasn't non-Hispanics either that made me feel that way. However, what I've learned is that where ever you go, you will always find people who are prejuidced, or who don't like you or don't want to talk to you for whatever reasons. You need to see that these people aren't worth knowing. Take time to talk to people--maybe you'll click, maybe you won't but don't let it stop you from trying. I understand your experience at church. My parents took us to a church where most of the congregation was rich and the kids all went to private schools. My brothers and I felt like we didn't belong. We told our parents that but they still made us go. Have you tried telling your parents how you feel about church? If you have and they still make you go, you will have to tough it out. Not ideal, but trust me, you will get through it. Lastly, I know this sounds cliched but when the school year starts, consider joining a club that interests you. Easier said than done, I know, since some cubs are so cliquey. Like any school, you will get a feel for which clubs are best for you.
 

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