Date:   5/12/2003 4:44:02 PM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=331152

I posted a message not to long ago and I didn’t know how to explain the problem but I took care of it. And you all seem like you are great with helping so I have other problems I want to see what all of you options a. I need and neutral party.

My girlfriend has cheated on everyone of her past boyfriends but supposedly she’s changed since then and I’m the first guy she truly loves and cares about. But to the point, she tells me she like to keep her personal life (me) and her social life (friends)
separate. The most recent problem having with this is she went to prom with a guy she doesn’t know from out of town (Donnie) as a favor to her friend. And I was slightly bothered but i let it go. Today she’s going out with her friends including Donnie and says she doesn’t feel comfortable with me being there because she doesn’t know them well enough. Even thou she’s known them all this year. Well my problem is I’m afraid she’s back to her old ways and for all i know she could be leading to lives. Her friends could think were just friends or even we have an open relationship so she could cheat on me while she’s out with friends.

I’ve tried talking to her about this telling her that i still have a trust issue with her past. And i just want to hang out with her and her friends just once so i could feel safe and know they know I’m here. But i say this and she gets mad at me saying fine you can ill feel uncomfortable just sp you can feel better.

So what I’m asking is what do i do how should I feel and how do i talk to her about this? I hope i made it clear.



 

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