Date:   4/9/2003 4:16:45 PM ( 21 y ago)
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On Nov 15th, I went to the Xbox unveiling in Toronto with my wife. (won the trip and everything). While there, they had one "boothgirl". She was Candi, dressed up as LeiFang, to promote DOA3. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/candi_kita_heaven/

I took a few pictures with her, and asked her to play a game of DOA3 with me. Really, that was all I was asking for. She was hot and all, but I never had the thought of "I want her NOW!" or anything similar to that. My wife mistook my forwardness for something along those lines, and it's been bothering her for over a year now. She can't trust me with girls, or anything.

I've already reduced my girl-watching to a minimal, and try to keep her in focus over the last year. She thinks that it's not enough.

In a month, I'll be going to E3. This has sparked up the same insecurities she has about me and my girl-oogling. I try reassuring her that I'm not going to do anything bad, but of course, she doesn't believe me. I'm getting quite discouraged. Especially when she brings this up everyday. Last night, she blew her top, and said something along the lines of "I get so mad that I just want to gouge your eyes out!!! ... and put them where you want them!!!"

She says I constantly lie to her, and claims that I always look at other girls when we're shopping. This is particularly bad when I honestly wasn't looking at anyone, but she thinks I am, just because some girl was in my cone of vision, or when she suspects there is someone there. Considering shopping malls consist of mostly females, this is very hard to avoid.

Her: I caught you looking!
Me: I wasn't!
Her: Yeah right!

It's gotten worse - she told me that "very often", she catches me looking, but doesn't say anything. This gives me no chance to redeem myself, as I'm automatically defaulted as gawking.

As to the frequency of how often I look? Consider we go into almost all the popular clothing shops, such as Gap, or Aritzia, I would probably look at 5 girls in total.

Anything I can do to make her happy again? Anything I can do to reassure her that everything is going to be fine?

I've also posted this topic at
http://www.neotaku.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=6368&start=0&postdays=0&postord...

 

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