Date:   3/13/2003 10:27:31 AM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=330898

hmm...whatever you do, don't freak out. at least you have a chance to talk to her about this before it actually happens. mine just told me and then we haven't spoken to each other for months, which is the reason why I'm here. if you are really fond of her...don't give up. if the times you have together are really great, then isn't it worth waiting for? yes you two don't get to see each other so often, but if you guys did, you'd face the problem of her not wanting a relationship because you spend too much time together instead of too little. that's what happened to me...you get addicted to seeing them sometimes and it really is frustrating if they can't see you because of something else. an then you wonder, if she really did like you, then she'd give up that other thing...but she doesn't. the thing is, the importance of the relationship to each other is important and if you think you think it's more important than she thinks it is, then you have to get her feeling like its important. Be the perfect guy, not a nagging annoying guy who seems to be dragging her down. Give her magical experiences, make her happy. I hope you can do this. it's all that matters, well, that's what I think. unselfish-love. think of her feelings and needs. if it really is too hard for her....then do you want her to suffer for you? think about that.
 

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