Date:   3/8/2003 10:01:55 AM ( 21 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=330864

It is perfectly understandably to feel apprehensive in your circumstance, and you are to be congratulated for your courage and maturity in seeking advice and support.Many young women would not have take the initiative in this way. Your willingness to look ahead and take responsibility for the health and success of YOUR relationship is admirable and, this quality will ensure a successful marriage.
I would say that you and your guy should immediately start talking about what each of you wants out of your life together, and explore all your options so that both of you will become fulfilled. Find out where your similarities lie and also explore the ways in which you are different in your hopes and dreams. Adopt the habit of putting plans in place to manage anything in which you are in conflict. Please do not rely on "Love will find a way", it won't!
Have weekly "meetings" to discuss your progress and direction.
Solve the little problems while they are little. This will prevent that passion killer called resentment from becoming a partner in your relationship..Finally, enjoy your life together ...Good Luck.
 

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