Date:   3/31/2005 1:43:04 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Yep, my mom too! Though, not any more (so there is hope for your mom too). She was married to the abusive, drug addict, christian. Of course it really upset me. I found that I had to be the one to let go of HER addiction to the all the controlling church crap and her piece of crap husband. I had to remind myself SHE is the parent and I was the kid, even when we were both adults. Try not to forget that for yourself, even if your mother seams to have trouble reconizing the rolls. I had to just let my mom work through all that foolishness. There were things she had to find out for herself. She still gets bible preachy, but she has lightened up alot. So hang in there, as long as she is not putting her life in danger, she has the right to go along with what ever bozo bible christian fundy crap she wants. You as her kid should love her any way, and try not to get dragged down with it. When things for my mom were at the worst, I reminded myself that my mom was a pretty good mom, she tried her best to protect me, she gave me love, she read stories to me, and lots of other good mom things. She was not perfect, she made mistakes, but the point is she put forth her best effort. That is the most anyone could ask. So, have faith that things can change. Sometimes I "pray" for people to find their path in life. When I say pray, I mean I send possitive energy and possitive thoughts to or for someone. I send peacfulness. Well, hope that helps. ff.
 

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