Date:   2/18/2005 3:03:16 PM ( 19 y ago)
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Cleansoul is right it's an immaturity issue

Yr husband's behavior has nothing to do with yours. You just use it to apologize yr "roaming eye on men" and yr "heavy petting" with another man . This is simply childish. YOU allow yourself acting like that and I think that you would likely do the same even if yr hsb was more caring.

The matter is you not the person you married, he could either be a saint or a devil, you'd still be unsatisfied.

People read books and watch junk movies,then they expect their lives to be like that, so they easily get bored and go looking for some "fun" throwing garbage onto their previous relationship.
(They do not realize that this is a trick, just as the MD's trick,
to make us get sad and sick and lonely and then go feed surgeons and/or psychiatrists )

Marriage is not a romance novel. No one is perfect.To marry means choosing to be honest, respectful and helpful to yr spouse . No one puts a spell on you, you have to work for it. You expect a lot of things but what are you giving? You've been unfaithful already!


I think that, if this man still wishes to be near you in spite of yr immature and selfish behavior, then he must actually love you, and if he does, you'd better stay with him. Now you're 25 and as long as you are a "young hottie" it will not be difficult for you to find other men to have fun with. But how will you do when 35? Or 45? Your beauty will fade and men will not meet yr "roaming eye" anymore.

Life is too short to be wasted. Try to build something that is worth to live for.


greetings


 

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